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Interact Club Event - Feed My Starving Children
Dec 14, 2019
2:00 PM – 4:00 PM
 
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Dec 09, 2019
Dec 16, 2019
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Thinking is one thing no one has ever been able to tax.

 - Charles Kettering

Notes From the December 2nd Meeting
President Paul Munk welcomed guests speaker, Phil AndrewJeanne Beckman from the Winnetka Club, Patti Kalal and attendees. Our Speaker led the Club in the Pledge of Allegiance and Club members recited the Four Way Test.
 
Announcements:
This Tuesday, December 3rd is Giving Tuesday. Paul encouraged members to remember The Rotary Foundation. The Rotary Foundation funds grants across the globe. Our Club was a recent recipient for the Service Above Self scholarship. New members who have not yet reached a Paul Harris Fellowship pin, can donate $500 and the Rotary Foundation will match that as part of the Jack Blaine Challenge. If you have questions, please contact Len Tenner or Manu Khodadad.
 
VOLUNTEERS NEEDED
The 9th Annual Day of Giving event is hosted at Northwood Junior High School. Students organized clothes, toiletries, food and other necessities by donated by families. across District 112. Other students made blankets, cards and gift bags for local families. The 112 Education Foundation is proud to support this service-learning program. See below for the list of needed items in the article titled "Day of Giving 2019".  Our club member Scott Coren (scoren@cityofhighwood.org) will be coordinating our effort. Volunteers needed for Friday December 6th and especially Saturday morning (the 7th)  from 6 - 10 a.m. when kids are no longer involved. Businesses acting as collection points are both HP and Highwood City Halls, FBHP, HPB&T and at Northwood Junior High.
 
ALSO.....
NSSD 112 and the 112 Education Foundation hosts a robotics tournament each December. This year several "referees" are needed. They will train the day of the event, so no prior knowledge is necessary. The commitment is from 8:30 a.m. -2:00 p.m. on Saturday December 14th with a pizza lunch included.  Contact Bill Steinbach at bsteinbach@nssd112.org. You may also contact Eric Ephraim at  EEphraim@firstbankhp.com.
 
The Interact Club will be volunteering at Feed My Starving Children on December 14th in the afternoon. They are looking for several adults for this event. Please contact Len Tenner.
 
Glenbrook South is looking for volunteers for a parental discussion. Please see Paul Munk.
 
Highland Park Strings will be performing Sunday December 15th at 3 p.m. at HPHS. The concert is free. Rotarians will be acknowledged.
 
Holiday Party!!!
Check your emails for the information about this year's Holiday party.The festivities begin Friday December 13th at 6 p.m. at the home of Fred Orkin and Sylvia Aruffo, 215 Prospect, Highland Park. Mary Beth is once again seeking baby pictures for the game. Please call or email her at 847-432-1500 or mbbretzlauf@comcast.net - she needs the picture ahead of the party. There is a $15-20 dollar limit for the gift exchange (chocolate and wine are highly coveted when it comes time to steal). Members with last names A - I bring an appetizer, J-R bring a side dish and S-Z bring a dessert. Contact Mike Babian  at 847-432-5570 to RSVP by December 10th.
 
December 16th, the Club Assembly will be our last meeting of the year!
 
Mark your calendar!  Our annual Gala will be held May 16th at Exmoor Country Club.
 
The Nominating Committee Report:The Committee, Dale Mugler, Larry Block, Phil Lazarus, Fred Orkin and Len Tenner revealed the nominees for Executives and Officers for 2020-21.
 
  • President Elect - Karen Dennis
  • Secretary - Jenanne Rock
  • Treasurer - Sandra Bast
  • The Rotary Foundation - Court Williams
 
The slate was approved by a show of hands. Congratulations to our new Officers and Directors!
 
 
Guests and Visiting Rotarians

Phil Andrew, Speaker
Patti Kalal, guest of Neil Dahlmann
Jeanne Beckman, of the Winnetka Club

50/50 Winners
1st Place: Jim Berardi
2nd Place: Diana Sotelo
3rd Place: Paul Munk
Happy Dollars
Happy dollars were given by: Karen Dennis gave a dollar for each day she took  off and for how great it was to see Scott Coren at the meeting today; Len Tenner for his grandson being named captain of the basketball team and they won their first game,and in hopes Fred Orkin doesn't talk about Ohio State today; Fred Orkin congratulated Ohio State for their win this weekend; Diana Sotelo for being here with everyone; Neil Dahlmann for his guests Patti Kalal and Mary Beth coming today and to commiserate with those who cheered on Michigan, Minnesota ans Illinois over the weekend; Jim Berardi for the extra raffle ticket he had; and Bill Pigati for discovering a line around the block of his restaurant for opera tickets. He is sold out except for a couple of tickets for Thursday at 8 p.m! Patti Kalal for her Badger swimmers - Ohio State should watch out! Paul Munk for our new officers!
The Day's Program
Dick Stone introduced our speaker Phil Andrew. Phil spent 21 years as a Special Agent with the FBI. Most of that time as a crisis negotiator. He pointed out that people often barricade themselves when they are in crisis - whether it be perpetrators, victims, witnesses, even first responders. It happens to people of all levels.  Phil speaks from experience. 
 
On May 20, 1988, Phil had returned from U of I for the summer and was looking forward to a busy summer interning with the State's Attorney's office while also working in Congressman John Porter's office. While talking to his mother in the kitchen, they were unaware of what was happening a couple blocks away. Laurie Dann said her good-byes to a family she was a nanny for at one time, then doused gasoline on their basement door stoop and lit a match with the mother and children inside. The mother was able to escape and call 911. Next, Laurie Dann parked near Hubbard Woods School where a spring carnival was going on.
 
She walked into the school and slipped inside the boy's bathroom to light the fuse of a homemade cyanide gas device. The fuse failed, thus saving about 200 lives that day. A boy walked into the washroom and was shot by Dann. He was able to make it to the school office where police were notified. Laurie Dann shot three other children, one child died,  and then she ran to a nearby home - the Andrew home. Phil and his mother tried to calm Laurie down, keep her talking, but she was beyond listening. At one point Phil tried to disarm her and was shot in the chest. Both lungs and several other organs were struck. Phil laid in the driveway of his home while the police tried negotiating with her. After some time, Laurie went upstairs in the Andrew home and killed herself. It was a first responder who ordered Phil to stay awake and keep breathing. 
 
Phil learned that day about human connection. He learned that rapport can build over time or happen in a second. It requires listening. Listening is the first step.  Stretching that first step and engaging is the next. Having the resources to help those in a crisis is key as well. 

Today Phil is Principal of PAX Group. PAX works with organizations on Risk Preparation & Mitigation and Crisis & Conflict Resolution. Among their clients are the Archdiocese of Chicago, Institute for Non-Violence Chicago, Chicago CRED, and Peaceful Pathways.
 
He shared with the club statistics about guns and gun violence. He feels we need to reform policies and gun laws  Over half of all gun related deaths are suicides. Of that number, one in five are veterans. Less than two percent of shootings are attributed to mass shootings. 86% percent of mass shooters were either a perpetrator or victim of domestic violence. Half of all mass shooters exhibit warning signs (even Laurie Dann). Since that first mass school shooting much has been discovered about how we address these crimes. Educating stakeholders like first responders, counselors, and teachers of the warning signs as well as not naming the perpetrator and thereby removing the "celebrity status" in more vulnerable circles.
 
Both New York City and Los Angeles were sued by the Federal Government resulting in consent decrees. The cities invested in programs that addressed the issues, at great expense ($150 - $200 million a year). The outcome was the lowest number of homicides in BOTH cities since the prior decade and the enactment of the consent decree. In 2016, much of the Chicago's gun violence was street level and often in response to social media taunts. In 2017, when you compared the data of Chicago, Los Angeles and New York,  each of them had roughly the same number of non-gun related homicides - less than 2%. However, for gun related homicides, New York had an equal number of their non-gun stats; LA's stat was 5% that and Chicago's was 22% more than New York's. Forty percent of crimes committed with a gun in Chicago were with guns purchased in Indiana. Thirty-four thousand Illinoisans who own guns have been deemed unsafe to own a firearm, yet they still have them. 
 
Hate speech is also an aspect of this - how we respond - some shooters act to seek that approval. If violence is learned and degrading speech is introduced, it dehumanizes you. That is why intervention at an early age is so important.
 
After his encounter with Laurie Dann, Phil said his resilience came from the support of family, coaches and the community. It comes down to making that human connection - asking "Are you okay?" and then "Can I help?"
 
   -mbb
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